I do not disagree with you. I do live my life with as much caution. I just DO NOT LIKE TO. I do not believe in destiny. I do not believe in God. But I believe I should be able to live a life where my gender does not prevent me from being happy. And I feel happy when I am walking alone on the street, sitting alone in a coffee shop, travelling by the last metro...where you bond with people you meet at those junctures...people who do not rape you.